The baby - who isn't much of a baby, but is actually 14 months old - has decided that sleep is for the weak.
Since the move the new routine has thrown things off kilter and he falls asleep on the drive home every day, which means that he's fallen asleep too early and then wakes when we get home and will NOT settle back to sleep at the right time - or at any time before 10pm.
We resorted to putting him in his cot and letting him cry tonight - which we've always said we won't do - we just couldn't think what else to do - he doesn't settle on or near us, he just bashes and scratches and slaps and wallops us.
He seems to think it's all very amusing but it isn't - and when I get up between 6am and 6.30am every day and literally do not stop until he falls asleep after 10 every day it's more than a little draining - particularly on top of the hideous cold we've all had too.
Tonight was the first night since the move that he fell asleep before 10, and he went off at 9 instead. It's an improvement I guess, but I would love for him to just go to bed like a human rather than turning into a screaching ball of fury and woe.
I want an evening, and I want time to wind down and to get things done in the evening, and I would like time with my husband, and I would like him to just go to bloody sleep!