I blogged earlier tonight about the expense of childcare and had myself a wee whinge.
But you know what? I'm lucky. Actually, very.
I'm lucky because I can do a job I love, have a healthy family, I have a lovely home in a lovely place that I adore. I'm lucky.
I was, briefly, worried I had some real health problems this month. I had a smear test, the results were 'abnormal' and I had a re-do. The re-do results came back today, all clear. That's a relief, innit. I wouldn't really like to have the cancers in my lady parts. It would REALLY cramp my style.
So I am healthy. My babies are healthy. My husband is healthy. We don't have the money for a nice fortnight in a sunny holiday place - but we have weekends at home, and home is gorgeous.
We don't have a flash car, but we run two to get to work. We don't have a massive house, but this one is ours and has a lot of space.
We don't have a flashy life, but we get by, and are comfortable, and eat healthily.
There are many who can't afford that. Who can't claim the same. Who aren't as lucky as us.
There have been some scary things happen in the local area this month, where people have lost homes, lost lives, lost family, in an instant, and totally out of the blue. I am so lucky.
I am SO lucky. I have a happy, healthy family and a lovely home. I have a life I love, and friends and family to share it with.
I am so lucky. I am so happy. Honestly, even with anxieties and money worries, even with day to day concerns, I am lucky. So, so lucky.
Everyone is entitled to a moan now and then, it doesn't mean you aren't grateful or happy with your lot. It just makes you human :)
ReplyDeleteClaire x
I am human, and some things are hard - but I do feel lucky today
DeleteI know what you mean, have to remind myself sometimes that we're lucky to have a roof over our heads but you are entitled to moan about your situation because it is your situation and you live it. Things can still be hard even though you have a house, car, food etc. great posts.
ReplyDeleteWow. Well done you! Good to hear from someone who isn't obsessed by money or material things. Health is something you can't pay for and if you and your family have that, then it doesn't matter what you don't have. Try to save for a holiday though. Think you'll find you'll get away from the anxiety, or at least get a break from it, if you do.
ReplyDeleteI love this post, it made me stop and re evaluate my life, and you know what? I am lucky too!
ReplyDeleteI am glad your lady parts got the all clear.